Emily M. DeArdo

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Good Friday, Easter, and the "Upside Down Kingdom"

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“Easter is a time when God turned the inevitability of death into the invincibility of life.” ― Craig D. Lounsbrough

Emily also wrote a beautiful post about her thoughts on Good Friday in 2016 that can be read here.


Think about what an “Upside Down Kingdom” Jesus presented by His life! Instead of coming to earth in full power and glory on a white horse with an army of angels in tow to take the world by force, He came as a vulnerable baby, born to a young mother who the world thought had stepped out on the man she was betrothed to and was born in a stable for livestock. He came not to show His power, but to show the world the heart the Father has for us through His life and ministry.

Then 33 years later, He knew His time had come to fulfill the words given to the prophets of old. He had just spent the evening showing His disciples what it meant to be a true servant leader (He washed their feet). He shared His last Passover meal with them even though He knew in a few hours one who betray Him into the hands of those who hated Him and most of the others would abandon Him. He spent hours praying in the Garden of Gethsemane for His Father’s will to be done, to the point of sweating blood, while His most trusted disciples couldn’t even stay awake to pray. He was betrayed with a kiss by one of His 12, had to heal a servant’s ear when Peter reacted too quickly, was lied about before and by the Sanhedrin, stared into the face of Peter when He was denied by him 3 times as He has predicted, had His skin shredded to pieces by a whip swung by eager Roman guards, was exchanged for the release of an insurrectionist murderer, was found guilty without justifiable reason, He was spat on and mocked, stripped of His clothing which was cast for lots, had a crown of thorns forced upon and pushed deep into His skull, carried a cross up a hill on His torn shoulders in complete exhaustion, had large nails driven into His wrists and feet in which He was hoisted into the air to tear more flesh to gain a breath, forgave a thief and welcomed him into paradise with Him, gave His mother to John to take care of, was pierced by a spear, given a sponge of gull and vinegar offered as His last drink (a mixture to dull His senses that He refused)…and still in His final moments He looked out into all the world and asked the Father to forgive them.

An Upside Down Kingdom indeed.

Emily was born on Good Friday in 1982 (April 9) and graduated to heaven right after Christmas in 2023. Last year, Emily did a special reading from Isaiah on her 40th spiritual birthday , which you can watch here (6:00 minute mark). Her beginning of life and death were opposite of when we celebrate the birth and crucifixion of our Lord Jesus Christ. It’s quite incredible in the way that He brought Emily into the world on such a day and brought her back to Him on the latter. As someone who was a writer and appreciated poetry herself, Emily might even find it poetic.

The beautiful and amazing thing about Good Friday, a Friday that should be named anything but “good” considering everything that occurred, is that Jesus saw Emily when He made the journey to the cross that day. He saw her sin and suffering, just as He saw yours and mine. He knew the suffering she would endure in her time walking this earth and He knew what you and I would face as well.

We all know that the story didn’t end on Good Friday! In God’s “Upside Down Kingdom”, the story doesn’t end at suffering and death, but with Resurrection. The gates of hell could not prevail and Jesus’s perfect sacrifice obtained the keys to our salvation and the curtain of the temple that physically and metaphorically symbolized our separation from God was torn in two! Praise to our Heavenly Father that also in His “Upside Down Kingdom” we can obtain His gift of Salvation through our faith and submission to Him and enter His presence. This is what Easter is all about.

“All praise to God, the Father of our Lord Jesus Christ. It is by his great mercy that we have been born again because God raised Jesus Christ from the dead. Now we live with great expectation, and we have a priceless inheritance—an inheritance that is kept in heaven for you, pure and undefiled, beyond the reach of change and decay. “- 1 Peter 1:3

Lent Week 6: The Blessing of Giving 👈

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Mother Teresa said: “if you do something, and I do something, then together, we will do something beautiful for God.”

Here are some global income statistics from in 2023 to consider:

  • The average global personal income is $9,733 per year.

  • The average global household income is $12,235 per year. (zippia.com)

  • The median per-capita household income is only $2,920 per year. (zippia.com)

  • Making over $100,000 puts you in the top 10% of global earners, while making over $1 million puts you in the top 1%. (zippia.com)

  • The minimum wage in Bangladesh is set to 1,500 Bangladeshi taka (BDT) or 14.62 USD a month. (skuad.com)

When we saw those number all we could say was WOW. Have you ever stopped to consider how truly blessed you are? Maybe you’re not a millionaire (or maybe you are), but we all have something or some way we can give to others. Whether it’s a donation to an honorable charity, sponsoring a child or family in need, volunteering of time to a food bank, helping an elderly person run errands, volunteering to help at church events or any number of God-honoring acts, the Lord will be pleased by your offering to Him. And have no doubt, our Father is faithful to provide for all His children and He loves when we have a giving heart.

Remember this: Whoever sows sparingly will also reap sparingly, and whoever sows generously will also reap generously. Each of you should give what you have decided in your heart to give, not reluctantly or under compulsion, for God loves a cheerful giver. 2 Corinthians 9:6-8

Lent is the perfect season to consider making changes in your giving. Consider how your obedience to God in being a cheerful giver will have a ripple effect on the lives around you. It’s good to wisely budget your money, but Matthew 25:35-36 tells us the truth behind the heart and actions of giving. It’s in these acts that we bring a tiny glimpse the Kingdom of God down to earth here and now.

For I was hungry, and you fed me. I was thirsty, and you gave me a drink. I was a stranger, and you invited me into your home. I was naked, and you gave me clothing. I was sick, and you cared for me. I was in prison, and you visited me.’ Matthew 25:35-36

May whatever you have planned to give to the Lord and to others be a holy and pleasing offering to the Lord. May He fill you with strength and his protection as you grow closer to Him.

Lent Week 5: The Heart of Prayer ❤️🙏

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“He (Jesus) also told this parable to some who trusted in themselves that they were righteous and regarded others with contempt: ‘Two men went up to the temple to pray, one a Pharisee and the other a tax-collector. The Pharisee, standing by himself, was praying thus, “God, I thank you that I am not like other people: thieves, rogues, adulterers, or even like this tax-collector. I fast twice a week; I give a tenth of all my income.” But the tax-collector, standing far off, would not even look up to heaven, but was beating his breast and saying, “God, be merciful to me, a sinner!” I tell you, this man went down to his home justified rather than the other; for all who exalt themselves will be humbled, but all who humble themselves will be exalted.’” (Luke 18:9-14)

We’ve all read Jesus’s parable of the Pharisee and the tax collector in Luke 18, but we want you to read it this time from the perspective that you are the Pharisee. Now read it again with the perspective that you are the tax collector.

How did each perspective about prayer make you feel? What was going through your mind as you read from their viewpoint?

The 2nd Pillar of Lent we’re talking about is prayer. Why is prayer the easiest thing for some people to do and the hardest thing for others? Some people pray with a flow like it’s first nature to them and other have more “ums” and “uhs” than they have actual words in them. But you know what? The Father loves them all, whether eloquent or inarticulate. As you go through this 5th week of Lent, remember that any sincere prayer uttered from a soft heart is much better than a hardened heart that speaks none at all.

Emily wrote about different prayers that can are common during Lent and gives resources in this article.

What are your prayers like right now? Are they self-focused or focused on others? Maybe you could start a prayer journal to write out daily gratitudes to the Lord. Maybe you could keep a journal of prayer requests for yourself and others. Or maybe you could do both if you’re feeling ambitious, but start somewhere and let the Lord lead you in growing your prayer time with Him. He loves to be in communion with us.

May whatever you have planned to pray for or about be a holy and pleasing offering to the Lord. May He fill you with strength and his protection as you grow closer to Him.

Lent Week 4: The Mindset of Fasting

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For the next 3 weeks, we wanted to dig a little deeper into the 3 Pillars of Lent: fasting, prayer, and almsgiving. We hope you enjoy past writings from Emily that are good reminders for these pillars, as well as enjoy the additional thoughts to ponder.

So let’s talk about fasting. The image above was chosen because we know Emily would appreciate the fine English aesthetic. :) Now, if were were honest with ourselves, it’s the least “enjoyable” of the pillars for most. It’s giving up our everyday life schedules we are so used to and comfortable with in exchange for going without. It’s an interruption. It’s a disconnect from the familiar. But honestly, it can be downright irritating when we don’t have the right heart and mindset about it!

Emily gave a list of reasons for fasting in this great post from Lent 2016 here.

Here is the summary of her 4 points on why we fast during Lent:

  1. It’s in Scripture (Matthew 4:1-2. 17:17-20)

  2. It’ll show us where we need discipline in your lives.

  3. It will make us grateful for what we have and remember those without.

  4. It will help us recognize our sins.

Take this week to dig into what fasting up until now has taught or shown you about yourself and your mindset. Remember, you’re fasting because you get to focus time on your relationship WITH God, not for making others believe you are so much more righteous than they are or making them sympathize for your sacrifices during fasting. Give thanks to God for this time you get to dedicate to Him!

Matthew 6:16-18 - “And when you fast, do not look gloomy like the hypocrites, for they disfigure their faces that their fasting may be seen by others. Truly, I say to you, they have received their reward. But when you fast, anoint your head and wash your face, that your fasting may not be seen by others but by your Father who is in secret. And your Father who sees in secret will reward you.”’

May whatever you have planned to fast be a holy and pleasing offering to the Lord. May He fill you with strength and his protection as you grow closer to Him.